If you want to learn how to get women into bed, you should be ready to be creative when coming up with material you can use for a conversation. Creative story telling is something anyone can do, as long as you have the humor and the daring to tell some really naughty stories.
- stories about funny bedroom moments
- craziest things you have done
- most stupid thing you did in response to a dare
These stories should show a woman one side of your personality. At the very least, the stories should get her entertained enough to want more from the conversation.
Next, let’s talk about how you can turn these stories into pick up tools that get you in bed with women.
3 Ways to Use Stories in Seduction
1. Encourage Physical Contact
Sharing stories is a two-way road. You share your story and she shares hers, until you both feel comfortable around each other. Encourage her to reveal a vulnerable moment, or share a story that really touched her. When she’s all emotional, you can go for a hug, a kiss on the forehead or a kiss on the lips. Or, you can use a sob story to get her sympathetic and hug you.
Funny stories are also great for encouraging physical contact. Share a high five when you discover a common interest, such as sports or travelling. Pat her arm when you want her to listen to the most important part of your story, and let the touch linger. Letting her playfully punch you when you say something funny is also a good way to make her touch you.
2. Show Your Sexual Personality
Telling stories is a crucial part of a dating strategy called “sexual framing,” where in you use stories to let her know that you’re someone she wants to be with because you have most of the things she would look for in a guy. A story about your exploits in another country may tell of your sexual skills and experience, as well as your adventurous nature. Sexual stories can be factual or they can be made up completely. Talking about how good you are in bed in an indirect way will get her excited, giddy and even aroused.
3. Debunk a Negative First Impression
Stories that make her see you in a different light are also great for debunking whatever negative first impression she had of you. These stories are useful if you came on too strong and she has lingering feelings of resistance. This could happen if your opener fell flat, or you’re not as good looking as the other guys in the room. Sensitivity in a guy trumps good looks, and if your story tells of your sensitive side, then you have a better chance of getting along with her.
To sum it up, you can always use stories to build sexual comfort with any girl you meet. This is very important, especially when you’re still in the process of developing a strategy on how to get women into bed.