Watching Adult Sex Videos Together – Movies Make Magic

Although they still have a stigma for many people, watching adult sex videos with your spouse can be a really great way to improve your marriage sex. Available in as many different varieties as there are types of people in the world, you can watch everything from very basic, “soft porn” as it is called to more graphic and experimental types of adult films. Sensual and erotic imagery is both visually and mentally arousing and may even plant an idea or two in your minds for what you would like to try with one another. Rather than being something that only single men watch in the dark, by themselves, while they masturbate, adult films are actually a really effective type of foreplay for many married couples.

Many couples may secretly want to watch an adult film together, but are hesitant because they are afraid to suggest it to their mate. For some women, there is a fear that their husband will find the women on film more attractive than they find them. For some men, there is concern that their wives may be turned off or find fault with their arousal. The reality is that watching adult films together can be a real bonding experience. It may take several tries to find a particular genre of adult film that works for you both, but in most cases, just the simple act of being “naughty” and watching other people getting physical is enough to start something fun for the married couple watching.

If you and your spouse have decided to watch an adult sex video together, then you should discuss what kinds of films are “OK” and which ones are “off limits”. For instance, your spouse may be uncomfortable watching a film that depicts more than one partner at a time. The object of watching an adult sex video together is to get one another turned on, not turned off, so be sensitive to one another’s preferences. One of the benefits of watching a sex video together is that you may get ideas for positions to try out. Also, having the noise in the background may also help lower your spouse’s inhibitions when it comes to expressing their pleasure vocally.

If you are looking for an easy way to improve your marriage sex life, watching adult sex videos together is a great way to start. Sit back, relax, pop in a video and let nature take its course. You may find that you are having the hottest sex of your marriage, in no time flat!

Use Your Story to Spread Hope and Healing To Others Who Are Suffering

There are many people on this planet who has gone through or who is going through what you went through. They are seeking ways to cope with their pain. They feel that no one is there for them. They feel alone and they may feel suicidal. Because of the deep pain they are feeling internally they may act on those thoughts of suicide or they may drink, take drugs, use food or sex to numb their pain. No one deserves to be in such twisted pain. You can help those individuals. How? Share your story, share what you went through, and share how you felt and how you are feeling. Show others who are going through pain, show them your pain. Let them connect with you. Many individuals feel that they are alone with what they are going through. They are ashamed of talking about their pain. They may feel that no one will believe them. That is not true.

You know what you went through and how you were made to feel as if it was all in your head. You know firsthand how family members did not want to hear your, believe you and wanted you to shut up and suffer in silence. They may be ashamed and of course they are making it all about them and not about you. Use your voice to empower others. Use your voice, share your story to bring hope, peace in the midst of pain for those who need to hear your story. There are thousands of children who are being sexually abused by close family friends and even by family members. Those children are suffering in silence because they know that people will tell them that they are making things up. Can you now imagine the pain and shame those children are going to grow up with and take into their adulthood?

The very individuals who ought to be protecting them are the very ones who are telling them that they are making things up, they are imagining things. They were told that, oh, it’s just a hug or, that is how friendly so&so is. He does it to everyone. You are told that you are making a big deal out of it or you are making things up. That is how the fathers, stepfathers, brothers, step-brothers, uncles, grandfather, elder(s) is protected and the child is made out to be the liar all because adults do not want to stand up to the highly esteemed so&so. When the child or even an adult is made to feel that it is all in their mind the damage to their psyche will be so great.

I am so thankful that I had individuals who believed me and who did not make me think that I was making things up. As a result, I was able to get the clean help that I needed. I had friends who had gone through the same things and they could see that I was suffering. They started to share their story with me and how they had suffered through the feelings of shame and self-disgust. They saw me going down the same path of self-hatred that they had traveled and they held my hand all the way, until I felt safe enough with them to share what I had gone through. At a very young age, those young ladies gave me a rock to lean on. They never left my side. I owe my life to those women. They pushed me to go to Therapy. I was also very fortunate to have Therapists who were fully self-actualized and who understood what I went through. They helped me to start valuing myself, start loving myself and to start seeing myself as a person who is deserving of clean love and a healthy life. They gave voice to what I was afraid of talking about. They gave me a voice, my voice. They helped me to stop blaming myself for what adults did to me. They helped me to start my healing.

Can you now imagine children and adults who are being torn down by the very people who should be helping them with their healing? They don’t have their own voice. Can you imagine the deep, devastating pain that those individuals are suffering inside? Enough hiding and trying to make others into liars all because adults do not want to deal with those disgusting and awful things. We need to bring healing to individuals who are in pain. If someone does not want to believe you, then that is not your issue. You do not need to convince anyone of what you went through. Those who went through what you went through can and will relate to you, they will believe you, the same way you will relate to and believe those who are seeking help. I believe you because I know and understand what you are going through.

When you share your story, you are not only helping those who need to hear your story, you are also helping yourself. The more you talk about your pain, the more you bring healing to yourself. That is why it is said that the more you help others, the more you help yourself. You know firsthand how devastating it is to be put on trial for the abuse you suffered. You know how it feels when children are led to believe that they are imagining things. There is nothing more devastating than for someone to have gone through abuse of any kind, including rape, to have others try to twist up your mind and make you think that nothing happened you are only imagining things. No one should ever have to face that. And you should never be around anyone who refuses to acknowledge what you went through. You do not need to be abused anymore, so remove yourself permanently from anyone who wants to make you suffer more in silence and self-doubt.

Do not keep quiet about your abuse. You know firsthand how others who were abused feel and were made to feel. You know how it feels to not know when the next fist to your face by your father or your partner is going to come. You grew up having a front seat view to domestic violence and sexual abuse in your house and the homes of your friends. Sadly, many people are ashamed of talking about what they went through and their family may deny what happened and refuse to acknowledge what they went through. Chances are, those family members also went through the same abuse and they may feel that you need to shut up about it. It’s just what you go through as a woman. HELL TO THE NO!! No woman, man or child should ever have to experience the traumas of sexual abuse, rape or any other kind of sexual violence.

You are a survivor. You have weathered the storm of your childhood abuse. You have survived domestic violence. It is not safe for your psyche to be around anyone who is going to make you second-guess yourself where the abuse you suffered is concerned. No one should ever have to face the disgusting pain or occurrence of any kind of sexual violence. The truth is sexual abuse is rape, because a child’s innocence is being raped. Their childhood is taken away from them and they are forced to be an adult way too soon.

Now your story does not have to be about sexual abuse. It could be about anything painful or traumatic that you went through. If you have survived and you are now thriving or doing better in your life, you can now turn around and share your story of hope and survival with others who are looking for hope. People who are in pain are not necessarily looking for monetary help. They are looking for someone who feels their pain, understands what they are going through and acknowledge them. People are looking for strength to cope with life. They are looking for a way to have a better life, one that is not filled with pain.

Calling what you went through “your story” is not referring to a fictional story. Your story refers to your life experiences. It refers to the things you have gone through, the lessons you learned and how you have built up your inner strength. Your story is not one to be debated. You have lived your story so you know your story better than anyone else. It is very painful when others want to question or debate your story as if it is a joke or something to be questioned. You have nothing to prove to others and your sexual trauma or any other trauma that you experienced is not something to be debated or to prove to anyone. You like everyone else deserves healing and that is where your sharing your story comes in. You can use your story to facilitate healing in someone else. Now you do not necessarily have to bring your story to the whole world. You can help one person to heal and find inner strength and they in turn will turn around and help someone else. That now starts a domino chain factor of healing.

Your life, your story is your calling to serve a higher purpose. That higher purpose is to bring healing, hope, strength and more to others. Remove yourself from anyone who wants to fight with you thus thwarting your higher calling and higher purpose. Your calling is to serve others and help them to heal. You are not for everyone and not everyone will be for you. However, you are for those who need to hear your story. People need hope; they want to have a better life than the one they are living.

Can a Sex Instructional Video Help Improve Your Love Life?

Whether you’re young or old, rich or poor, sex is probably one of the most talked about, if not controversial, topics in the whole world. Everyone needs sex, not just for procreation, but for pleasure and strengthening of a relationship as well. You can’t talk about romantic love without including sex in the equation so if you’re currently in a relationship and you want to make your love story last, you should definitely start working on your sex life. But how do you start? Though you’ll find a lot of great ideas online on how you can spice up your love life, there is really only one way that can help you take your sex life up a notch. Want to know what a sex instructional video can do for your relationship? Then don’t hesitate to read on.

Assuming that you and your lover both have open minds towards this subject, a sex instructional video can do wonders for your relationship. But do bear in mind that this option isn’t for everyone. If you’ve just started dating, make sure to have an open discussion with your partner on how he or she feels about using this sort of videos. This way, you’ll be able to avoid causing offense or any awkward moments that may lead to future misunderstandings in the relationship.

Helps You Become A Better Lover

Sure a sex instructional video may not be a necessity in making a relationship work, but it can help you make it stronger. A sex instructional video can help you become a better lover as it can provide you with tips and techniques that will make every sexual encounter worthy to be remembered. From oral techniques to different sex positions, you’ll be able to reinvent yourself as the ultimate lover once you’re done watching the video.

Allows You To Open Your Line Of Communication

Another benefit that you can get from incorporating the sex instructional video into your bedroom routine is that you’ll get a much more open communication line between you and your partner. Just by watching the video together, you’ll feel much more comfortable expressing what you want sexually and your partner will be more open to tell you what he or she would like to try out. When used properly, a sex instructional video will be able to help you form a stronger bond emotionally and physically.

If you’re interested in purchasing sex instructional videos, there are a number of ways that you can easily get your hands on them. First off, check out what your local adult bookstores or sex shops have on offer. Although these shops usually have an extensive line up of different adult videos that you can choose from, make sure that you choose a sex instructional video and not just a porn flick. If you’re not comfortable with the idea of visiting these shops or you just don’t have the time, start your search online instead. The great thing about purchasing online is that you not only have access to a wide array of different titles, but you’ll also get to shop anonymously.

Erotic Adult Lingerie For Women

Often women are so immersed in their outward appearance that they start neglecting what is within. This is the case with many of us women, who are interested in beautifying themselves from the very core, always pay special attention to their choice of under garments. Adult lingerie always had a great role to play in women’s lives.

Adult lingerie comes in a wide variety of sizes and shape. So whether you are a skinny sexy lass or a plus size with alluring curves you can easily choose your adult lingerie from this wide range of sizes. They also offer you to choose from a variety of designs and cuts.

Whereas some stick to your body like a wet swim suit, some may drape around your curves smoothly like a piece of cloth. Some of them are designed especially for special dresses to be worn by you in different occasions. For example you should wear a strapless bra with an off shoulder dress and similarly. Women of today know very well how important it is to match the under wear with your dress.

It is not just the color but also the design and cut of the dress that determine the kind of under wear that should be worn with it in order to look hot and sexy. The wrong underwear can ruin your effort of dressing up completely! So make sure you pick the right adult lingerie when you wear something out of the ordinary.

However, then you wear adult lingerie, you should be able to carry it out with perfect ease and confidence. If you are shy and uncomfortable wearing it, the lingerie alone can not make you the hot babe. But if you have the figure and are proud of it, wearing adult lingerie will only enhance the eroticism within you and nothing in this world can stop your partner from getting excited.

In fact, adult lingerie is one of the most effective tools to arouse excitement in your partner if things have just got stagnated for sometime. Kinky underwear and sexy bras can make him drool and bring back the passion that he had when he met you for the first time.

They can easily spice up your life in a unique way! So if you are one of those people, who still wear the old fashioned, ordinary, trashy undergarments all the time but are really eager to try out something new and exciting, then it is time for you to switch over to adult lingerie. They will not just change the way you look but also the ay you feel at present. They will rekindle the flame of eroticism in your life and help you to reinvent yourself in a very special way!

How to Give a Woman the Best Sexual Experience of Her Life – 5 Divine Sex Tips Revealed

Is your pool of ideas empty when it comes to female pleasure? If so, you might have difficulties in your seduction game. Women who are totally content with the sexual prowess of their partners will not give their partners any worries since they won’t be looking for other men out there that could satisfy their sexual needs.

If you want women to melt in your arms, you don’t have to be Roger Federer or Rafael Nadal, but having deadly sex tips can make a wide array of women line up to jump into your bed with you. Read on to discover what these tips are and offer women great sex, just as they deserve and will not be able to get from other men out there…

How To Give A Woman The Best Sexual Experience Of Her Life – 5 Divine Sex Tips Revealed

Divine Sex Tip #1. Surprise her. If you catch a woman by surprise, you can get the chance to improve her animalistic desires for you. On the other hand, if you keep offering her the same old “tricks”, you will simply lead her into a trap of sexual routine and ultimately, boredom.

If you need crazy ideas in which you can knock her panties off, try having public sex! Start off in your personal garden at home, for example, if the idea does not quite appeal to the both of you just yet. Plus, if the idea of having sex in public does not appeal to your partner at all or if she isn’t comfortable with the idea, then the garden would definitely be the perfect place to get things started.

Divine Sex Tip #2. Be spontaneous. Make things hotter in bed by pretending like you are both virgins. Do you remember how it first felt to jump into a bed and know that you would be having sex for the first time? Try to revive those feelings to get some steam back into your sexual life.

Divine Sex Tip #3. Make her imagination sizzle. Get your partner completely aroused by making her imagination sizzle. To do this, play some sexual games to get her brain switched onto nothing but sex.

One other way to do this would be by reading sexual stories or erotic novels together in bed. Then, ask her what sexual fantasies she has. Who knows? She may surprise you by reenacting them with you!

Divine Sex Tip #4. Know her erogenous zones. Every woman out there has erogenous zones that instantly trigger her pleasure spots just by being touched. Figure out where they are!

To find out where they are through mere touch, take note of any places that make your partner moan louder than usual. Then, concentrate on those particular areas to make her burst with sexual bliss.

Divine Sex Tip #5. Be the master of your sexuality. Some very effective and advanced sexual tips actually exist out there that you can learn in order to improve all of your sexual powers. One tip even has the power to make women reach orgasms without having to touch them – believe it!

This tip simply requires some conversational conditioning in order to get women to become sexually charged through your words. It is highly powerful.

Is She Wild in Bed? 3 Sexy Signs That a Woman Will Be Sexually Aggressive

What are the signs a woman is wild in bed? Can you tell by how she walks, talks or dresses to go out? Are shy women more likely to be wild when the lights go off… or, is an outgoing girl more likely to be outgoing between the sheets as well? Are there any subtle, or sexy clues that a girl REALLY likes sex, even if she seems conservative, buttoned up or even “prudish” from a personality standpoint?

If so… HOW so, and what should I look for?

Any of these questions sound familiar? The truth is, a woman’s sexual temperament can often be difficult to measure by her personality, her politics or even how she presents herself in ordinary life.

For example? There are LOUD, aggressive and even sexually provocative women who are BAD and boring in bed, and other women who are quiet, unassuming and even painfully shy, who “reverse roles” when the lights go off.

So while you will NEVER know for sure until the moment arrives, let’s look at 3 sexy signs that the shy girl YOU’VE got your eye on maybe a lot more WILD, than mild, where it matters most!

Filed Under: Is she a FITNESS freak?

Why? Because women who tend to be addicted to endorphins in the gym, tend to be bigger thrill seekers, and even more willing to take it off and want to SHOW it off in the bedroom to boot!

Consider this: A private survey done in 2013 by a well known fitness magazine asked self described women “workout warriors” what their favorite way to burn calories and get fit was. More than 80% of the women who worked out 5 times a week or MORE claimed that SEX was their preferred way to work out if possible… with the gym, or other exercise like Yoga being a distant #2.

The key takeaway is, women who crave physical fitness often would prefer SEX as their workout of choice, and often only need a partner who can keep UP to keep them inside!

Filed Under: Fall for a FOODIE

Women who are big fans of food experimentation, and haute cuisine, often have equally as adventurous ambitions with intimacy as well. Food can be a huge aphrodisiac as movies like 9 ½ weeks scandalously portrayed years ago… and a woman who appreciates experimenting with Chinese can often be a sign of an erotic, adventurous lover as well. If her food tastes run WILDER rather than mild? Believe it or not, the spicier her tastes run in the kitchen, the spicier her sexual appetites may be as well!

Filed Under: The shy, quiet artistic types will often blow you away in bed!

In my own experience with hundreds of thousands of female readers, and hundreds of real life friends, I can tell you that the women who have the most erotic and adventurous sexual stories are almost always the ones who surprise me most.

Science Supports the Need for Casual Sex Flirting

Casual sex movies make it all seem so easy. Two people meet up at a bar, share a quick drink, and then are seen passionately bouncing off hallway walls as they try to get each other’s clothes off. But is it really all so simple? And if it is, then why aren’t all bar room hallways bursting at the seams with horny hookups? The answer is…they’re not and the science behind attraction and a woman’s desire for casual sex gives a little insight into why.

In several studies, the original one conducted in 1989 and a follow-up one conducted more recently, both men and women were asked if they would have casual sex with a platonic friend – a friends with benefits arrangement – or if they would have casual sex with a complete stranger. In both studies it showed that men were more likely to agree to a quickie than their female counterpart. So if you are a man and want to get a more favorable response to the question, “Will you go to bed with me?” there are few basic things that you need to understand about the women who are most likely to say yes.

Whether you meet a potential partner through an adult online dating site, through a friend, or in a pub, the basics of getting that person to agree to a one night stand or no strings attached relationship include a little flirting. Yes, even with casual sex you need a little flirting.

Science has suggested two theories explaining what women look for. The first theory reaches back to our caveman roots and the evolutionary reasons for having sex – survival of the species. In this explanation the woman needs to be choosy about their hook up mate since they expect them to stick around to help change diapers and buy formula. They want a man they can depend on.

The second theory is one that we can better get our minds around when talking about casual sex and that is the Pleasure Theory. We are all hardwired to pursue pleasure. This is the type of wiring that you guys need to stand up and take notice of. Yes, woman will be more likely to say yes to a casual relationship when they perceive that they are going to get a little pleasure from it…or more likely, a lot of pleasure. Women want to orgasm and they will be more willing to give it a shot with a guy (or girl) that is likely to provide it.

So let’s put the two theories together and create a better mousetrap. Guys, if you want casual sex then you need to convince a woman that they can depend on you to give them an orgasm!

How is this done? Well, to discover that you may just want to follow me and get some advice on some good old fashioned flirting and seduction. That is something that never goes out of style no matter if it’s casual sex or true love sex that you are after.

Sex Instructional Videos – Watch and Learn!

Although it’s evident that people nowadays are educated in the matter of sex, there are still those who need a little bit of help in that department. Whether you’re just starting out to become sexually active, or you’re in a relationship with a dwindling sex life, sex instructional videos may just be the thing you need. Sex can become quite a sensual and pleasurable activity, as long as you know exactly what you’re doing and why you’re doing it. Let sex instructional videos teach you a thing or two, and who knows? You might just discover as whole new side to you.

Sex instructional videos are great as it can help you spice up your bedroom routine with your lover. With different tips and techniques that you can learn from these videos, you’ll be able to become a better sexual partner. These videos can also help you let go of your inhibitions and your partner’s as well and teach you to be more confident in your own skin, no matter what body type you have. And because it’s highly recommended that you watch sex instructional videos with your lover, it can also possibly help strengthen the relationship.

You may be thinking, what makes sex instructional vids any different from porn videos? Though both videos will show people having sexual intercourse, you’ll actually learn something from instructional videos as it usually includes a narrative or a step by step guide. Whereas sex instructional videos aim to give you a better understanding of your body and how you can work it during sex, porn on the other hand will just show people having sex. If you think that sex is just like what you’ve seen on porn movies, you’ll be surprised to know that there is more to it than just the act itself. There’s foreplay, there’s romance and there are techniques that can help you make the whole act a mind blowing experience.

If you’re interested to know how you can your hands on sex instructional videos, you have a few choices. Depending on where you live and how your culture perceives sex, you might find it really easy or a bit challenging to acquire these videos. If you have an adult bookstore or a sex shop in your community, you can start your search there. You can also check stores that sell movies and DVDs and look for the adult section.

You can also look for online sites that sell sex instructional vids if you want to shop in the comforts of your own home. Although you’ll find a wide selection of different titles and types online, do take your time in choosing a video for you. Make sure that you check the production company and the description thoroughly if you don’t want to end up with cheap porn that was packaged as an instructional video. Look up reviews on which titles would be best suited for you. Don’t forget to ask your lover’s opinion on which titles to get so that you can come to a mutual agreement on what type of instructional video would best benefit you both.

Bondara – The Best Online Store For Your Sex Toy Purchases

When speaking of sex toys and aids, there might be a good shop near you. However, when it comes to the huge selection and efficiency of the products, there is only one best name. That is one of UK’s most successful online sotres, which is Bondara..

As we know, different ages and sexes have different needs when it comes to sex toys. The good news is that Bondara knows well about this. This is the reason why the range of their products are awesome from vibrators, dildos, male and women sex toys, sexy lingerie, bondage gears, anal toys to sex gears. Actually, the collection of products in this local store has come out to be over a million already.

Why Go For Bondara

Besides the convenience in shopping that Bondara provides, there are a lot of other great benefits that this shop offers. Just like other online stores, you can take advantage of great discounts and price slash offs from the items that you want simply by using a Bondara offer code, Bondara discount codes or the promotional code that you can get from money-off vouchers for Bondara. Here, check out these great offers Bondara has in store for you:

Delivery. One of the best reasons as to why you need to stay with Bondara is their way of delivery. For one, they have low shipping rates and can even offer free delivery service if you order reach up to 39.99 Euros. What’s more, this online shop is very discreet about the client’s privacy. The package you will receive will not contain any logo of Sex products. Indeed, talking about affordability and privacy, Bondara has it both to offer you. Much more, they have a same day shipping policy.

Reputation. This online shop is indeed a trusted online company that undergoes monitoring from SafeBuy. With this, you can have peace of mind when doing your shopping here.

Billing. The good news about this shop is that even in your bills, they still think about your privacy. Actually, you will see the name Nagook Ltd reflecting on your credit card or bank account statement rather than Bondara.

With all these, you can leave your doubts about trusting Bondara for your purchase of sex toys and aids. Indeed, if you try to shop here, there are a lot more great things you can discover from this shop.

Where To Get Discounts

What is amazing about Bondara is that they offer cheap sex toys for different needs. The website has a section dedicated to the cheapest of all their products in the market. Imagine, their bestsellers such as the Ultimate Jessica Rabbit Waver, MasterB Vibro-Cate Harrington, and Purple Pearl Rabbit Vibrator can all be purchased in less than 40 Euros.

Moreover, at a regular basis, there are Bondara offer code, money off vouchers for Bondara, Bondara UK discount code that you can make the best use of. To get any kind of Bondara offer code, what you only need to do is become a member of the company. Then, you can receive great discounts to all of your future purchases in the site. If you provide your email, you can always receive the shop’s newsletter containing special Bondara UK discount codes. You can also get these Bondara offer code, money off vouchers for Bondara, Bondara UK discount code by searching them in the Internet.

Indeed, what else can you be looking for in a sex toy shop? With the wide selections, convenience, affordability, and privacy they promise, everything you need is already in here.

Online Dating – The 5 Biggest Mistakes People Are Making And Striking Out

Gentlemen, STOP your engines! Take a deep breath and think about it for a second! What was the first thing you learned back in high school. You know, when girls first started looking good to you. When they stopped being ICCKKY! Play it cool. Don’t seem desperate, and in a way make her wonder: Is he interested in me? Which brings us to our number 1 mistake.

1- Whatever you do, don’t come off desperate. 9 out of the 10 emails I get have these dreaded phrases in them “Please” “I’d give anything to….” “Oh my god I can’t believe” “What will it take” Any guy that seems desperate makes a gal wonder. “Hmm.. Why is this lad having such a hard time meeting women? The famous ” I wonder what’s wrong with him” There must be something wrong with him. Oh well, on to the next guy. DON’T COME OFF DESPERATE!! It’s a huge turn off!

Have you ever tried walking up to a girl in a bar, club or even on the street and pulled your pants down? Of course not. You wouldn’t be reading this. You’d be in prison doing 2-4 for indecent exposure. You know what I’m getting at! Some of you have tried this tactic and no matter how big and beautiful it may be, you struck out! Didn’t you!? The famous number 2..

2- Don’t show ‘em your dingaling prematurely. I once posted an ad in the casual encounters section of Craigslist. The things I saw!! The horror! For example “Hi beautiful, if you like what you see, email me.” “Bet you haven’t seen one this big ever in your life” or the famous “Look how excited your picture made me” Now don’t get me wrong, it’s exactly what I was searching for posting in that section. But you see, women are looking for men. We’re interested in meeting YOU not it. If all we wanted was a weewee, we’d buy one at our local adult erotic shop and avoid the headaches. It’s an encounter with someone new we’re looking for. The excitement of the unknown. Make us want it. Don’t just hand it to us on a platter. We want to work for it a little. And don’t forget the obvious fact that with everything we’ve heard on the news, the stories of women getting raped and killed, we’re a little afraid to meet the men that come off as sexual predators. So please, KEEP IT IN YOUR PANTS UNTIL INSTRUCTED TO DO OTHERWISE!

So you’ve signed up on a random date site. You’ve put in your alias, your gender, and what you’re looking for. And now you avoid filling in the rest. Thinking that your alias “looking4mate72″ says it all and you don’t need to write anything else about yourself. Right? Did it work? No, it didn’t. Of course not. Don’t overlook number 3.

3- Tell us how interesting you are. If there’s nothing interesting about you, how can you get our interest? Make sense? Out of the 400 words you can enter in the field you chose to write “Hello, I’m looking for sex” well good for you, so is everyone else on here but at least they’re making an effort to attract the women. If you can’t think of anything interesting about yourself, chances are we won’t find anything either. These are the guys that go around saying “You know these dating sites are full of it. There’s no women, it’s all a scam. Dating sites are filled with real women dying to meet interesting dudes. There just don’t seem to be enough of them. Be interesting, and if you’re not, make something up! Make some sort of effort. With today’s technology we’ve been spoiled a little. But when it comes to meeting women, you have to spend a little time and energy. That’s the beauty. But if you can’t grasp this, don’t worry, I’m sure you’ll be able to download some beautiful woman on some torrent site in no time. We’re almost there. In the meantime…! keep…. you know.

Uploading your mug shot will probably not get too much attention from the sane women. You know the ones I’m talking about. No smile. The guy is starring into his webcam. You’re not sure if you’re still at the dating site or you accidentally clicked into the FBI’s most wanted list. A picture says a thousand words, make them good words.. number 4.

4- When it’s time to upload your pictures, don’t just turn on your cam and snap away. These have to be the dullest pictures I see. (I’d rather see their johnson, #2). Upload some real photos. A picture of you with your dog, you with friends, you at the beach. Something interesting! Somewhere you’ve been, something you’ve done. You, staring into your webcam, is not interesting at all. No one is going to sit there and go through 34 pictures you just took with your webcam in the dark. Creepy! You need to show us a side of you that’s going to grab our attention! Attraction is what it’s all about. NO MORE WEBCAM SHOTS!

Last but not least.. You’re going to hate this one I promise. But it’s as important or more important than the first 4… Pick a site you like, and become a member.

5- If you’re not willing to pay a few bucks a month to be a member, chances are I’m picking up the bill at the restaurant, bar, club, hotel or motel. The truth is, women rarely browse profiles of the free members that logged in once or twice. We like a little stability. We want to meet someone who’s been verified by the site. Avoids us a lot of trouble. What you’re telling women is; You’re not cheap, You’re a verified user, It’s safe to come in contact with you, you’re serious about meeting someone and again YOU’RE NOT CHEAP! If you can’t afford the membership, how are you going to meet up with me? Where will we be going? You can continue posting on those free classifieds “Anyone want me to pick her up with my car and go at it?” all you want, but you’ll be spending lots of lonely nights. And if it does work, I don’t want to see the gal that responds to that ad.

In conclusion, meeting women online is not that different from meeting women offline. Always remember that these are the same women you see in your everyday life. The difference is, it’s a lot easier to break the ice. So, why are you not succeeding at making that encounter? Is it because there are no women online? Of course not. There are as many women online as there are men. Avoiding these 5 deadly mistakes will increase your chances dramatically. Take advantage of the fact that most men are making these mistakes. There are plenty of fish in the E-SEA. Just remember to use the right bait. I’m currently on 3 dating sites myself. There are lots of single girls still looking for someone interesting to hook up with. I’m one of them. So please, if you come across me, don’t whip it out in my face, unless I ask you to!

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